R.A.F.T.

Being the last week of school for summer, there are many goodbyes being said.  Students moving, students staying, summer holidays, etc.  Today we had our end of the year assembly, and it was a nice way to celebrate those leaving and celebrate those staying.  I was pleased to see that all students were recognized and celebrated.

David Pollack, author of the book Third Culture Kids, writes that a good method for leaving is to build a RAFT.  R=reconciliation, A=affirmation, F=farewells, and T=Think Destination.  I have seen so many students and families use this as a guideline and it has made their transition go more smoothly.  Reconcile anything unfinished, affirm all those who have made a difference in your life, enjoy your farewells and make sure you say goodbye, and finally, Think about the expectations you have for where you are going and how that may impact you.

For me, affirmation is today’s theme.  And as I was walking to my office, I had tears in my eyes as one of my 7th grade boys told me, “Wow, I can’t believe you are leaving.  You are a part of this school.  I don’t want you to go.”  Never underestimate the power of affirming those around you for all they do in your life.  I will carry this student’s comment with me forever!